German Chocolate Cake Cupcakes

Let’s talk German Chocolate Cake.

German Chocolate Cake Cupcakes With Coconut Pecan Frosting

It is not just any cake, German Chocolate Cake is my husband’s favorite cake.  And today happens be my husband’s birthday.


German Chocolate Cake is the cake I brought him on his 21st birthday (note I didn’t say “made” – small technical detail), the day that is also known as the day we started dating.  And German Chocolate Cake is the cake that I made him for this birthday, many years later.

80s styleWhen big hair, giant sleeves and rock and roll ruled the world.

Okay, decades.  Let’s be honest, it’s d-e-c-a-d-e-s, plural, later.  For anyone crunching numbers, I’m younger (maybe a bit too young back on that 21st birthday in retrospect, but again, technical details).


Twenty some years and two kids later, I finally made the man a German Chocolate Cake (okay, cupcakes, clearly I’m not the details person in this partnership) with honest to goodness homemade coconut pecan frosting.  And oh my word, THAT is some GOOD stuff.  Don’t let the canned version turn you off (as it did me, for years).   The from scratch version is easy and so delicious that you could really skip the cake, if eating frosting straight from the bowl is your thing (and there is no shame in that my friends).

German Chocolate Cake Cupcakes

I figure after all these years, two beautiful daughters, and a crazy winding road, he deserved that coconut pecan frosting to be homemade.    He’s a great guy.  He works incredibly hard.  He fixes stuff, he gets his hands dirty and does things like build additions onto our house so that I can have a place to work.  He keeps this website running (even when I miss a small detail like an extra character in my website coding and “break” my website).

about us photo bar

He handles the math homework in the house, because I have some sort of geometry induced post traumatic stress disorder, and checked out of overseeing math homework in third grade.  He takes the night shift with our almost four year old who still wakes up like seven times a night, because he knows he handles sleep deprivation better than I do.  And then he’s the one who gets our little one up, dressed and fed breakfast in the morning.  It’s their thing.  And it’s sweet as can be.

DadsHe’s a fabulous daddy to our two girls.  He is also the co-captain on that team you find yourself running when you have a child with special needs.

ApraxiaHe’s the one who cared for our newborn daughter and myself for weeks, when I was critically ill after her her birth.

Daddy and daughterHe’s the guy who embraced the adoption journey with open arms, and held it together during the times that I couldn’t.  He’s the guy who is not hanging out with friends on a Friday night, because he’s hanging out on the couch, cuddling with his girls, watching Disney movies with a side of Myth Busters.

OceanHe’s the dad who is in the bounce house at the birthday parties, not just standing around beside it.  He’s the dance dad who not only pays the tuition, but drops off, picks up, cheers and watches with pride.  He’s the guy who is 100% supportive of his wife following her crazy dream of talking about cupcakes and cookies on the internet, even when he spent a lot of money to put her through graduate school to do something else entirely.   He’s the one who patiently taught me to drive a five speed, even when I got so frustrated that I stopped the car, and got out.  While driving.  Down a major city street.   Details.


He’s the one who leaves Thanksgiving dinner to pick up his mother in law when she gets in a car accident out of town.   He’s the one who makes waffles on Saturday mornings.  He’s the one who dresses in a pink cape to walk with a family friend in the Walk For The Cure.

Walk For The Cure

He’s the one who is always the designated driver on the rare nights out we get, so that I can have a frozen, salty margarita.   Though truth be told, he’ll tell you I’m a highly entertaining margarita drinker, so that designated driver thing might not be so bad.   He’s the rock in our family who holds it together and stays calm, especially at the times that I panic and act like a crazy person.   And he kills the creepy bugs and spiders that make all the girls in the house scream.

Dads and daughters

He’s that guy.   The guy who pretty much lives for these three girls.

family 2011

So let’s make that guy a German Chocolate Cake.  Or cupcakes.  Either way, the frosting is really the star of the show.

German Chocolate Cake With Homemade Coconut Pecan Frosting

Well, German Chocolate Cake in cupcake form.   Because cupcakes are always fun.   Well that and with cupcakes it’s easier to skip the frosting on one for your kiddo with a nut allergy, and he’s the dad that always wants his girls to get what they want (without the epi-pen).

German Chocolate Cake

German Chocolate Cake

Recipe courtesy of Kraft Foods.


  • 1 pkg. (4 oz.) BAKER'S GERMAN'S Sweet Chocolate
  • 1/2 cup water
  • 4 eggs, separated
  • 2 cups flour
  • 1 tsp. baking soda
  • 1/4 tsp. salt
  • 1 cup butter, softened
  • 2 cups sugar
  • 1 tsp. vanilla
  • 1 cup buttermilk
  • Coconut Pecan Frosting
  • 4 egg yolks
  • 1 can (12 oz.) evaporated milk
  • 1-1/2 tsp. vanilla
  • 1-1/2 cups sugar
  • 3/4 cup butter or margarine
  • 1 pkg. (7 oz.) BAKER'S ANGEL FLAKE Coconut (2-2/3 cups)
  • 1-1/2 cups chopped PLANTERS Pecans


For Cake

HEAT oven to 350°F.

COVER bottoms of 3 (9-inch) round pans with waxed paper; spray sides with cooking spray. Microwave chocolate and water in large microwaveable bowl on HIGH 1-1/2 to 2 min. or until chocolate is almost melted, stirring after 1 min. Stir until chocolate is completely melted.

BEAT egg whites in small bowl with mixer on high speed until stiff peaks form; set aside. Mix flour, baking soda and salt. Beat butter and sugar in large bowl with mixer until light and fluffy. Add egg yolks, 1 at a time, beating well after each. Blend in melted chocolate and vanilla. Add flour mixture alternately with buttermilk, beating until well blended after each addition.

ADD egg whites; stir gently until well blended. Pour into prepared pans.

BAKE 30 min. or until toothpick inserted in centers comes out clean. Immediately run small spatula around cakes in pans. Cool cakes in pans 15 min.; remove from pans to wire racks. Cool completely. Spread Coconut-Pecan Filling and Frosting between cake layers and onto top of cake.

For Frosting

BEAT egg yolks, milk and vanilla in large saucepan with whisk until well blended. Add sugar and butter; cook on medium heat 12 min. or until thickened and golden brown, stirring constantly. Remove from heat.

ADD coconut and nuts; mix well. Cool to desired spreading consistency.

To make as cupcakes, divide batter between 24 cupcake cups. Bake for approximately 20-25 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into center of a cupcake comes out clean.

Happy Birthday Rick, from your three girls.  :)

German Chocolate Cupcakes


  1. Janet Jamison says

    What a wonderful tribute to your hubby. Brought a bit of a tear to my eyes! Love your site which I think I found through Sally’s Baking Addiction. Keep up the great work! You have a life many women would envy. Thank you much!

  2. says

    How sweet it is. German chocolate cake cupcakes for those with a sweet tooth. Lets top it off with a cold glass of milk. This is one of my favorite cupcakes, Its looks so juicy, glazed with pecans and coconut. Just thinking about this treat makes my mouth water. What a great irresistible desert. Also what lovely pictures of you and you family. You are cherishing all of those special moments with your family and with the world. AWESOME!!!!!!!

  3. Michelle says

    Hello! How did you get the cupcakes to dome so nicely? When I made this recipe, they were flat and not domed. Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

    • says

      Michelle, I’ve found that the lower my baking racks are in the oven, the more mine dome. But, that said, I find that a lot of cupcake recipes dome sometimes and not the other. Also make sure you are filling them enough, I know a lot of bakers that get great domes on their cupcakes fill their liners higher than I do. Hope that helps!


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